Comments on: You’re still responsible if you refuse to take responsibility http://valeriemondesir.com/youre-still-responsible-if-you-refuse-to-take-responsibility/ Tue, 13 Jul 2010 23:53:24 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Valerie Mondesir http://valeriemondesir.com/youre-still-responsible-if-you-refuse-to-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Valerie Mondesir Tue, 29 Sep 2009 15:17:50 +0000 http://valeriemondesir.com/?p=674#comment-53 You bring up a great point, Karlil. I think there needs to be a balance between being satisfied with who we are and constantly pushing ourselves to do more, more, more all the time. In order to do that, we do need to sit down and ask ourselves what's the point and where we're trying to go. You bring up a great point, Karlil. I think there needs to be a balance between being satisfied with who we are and constantly pushing ourselves to do more, more, more all the time. In order to do that, we do need to sit down and ask ourselves what's the point and where we're trying to go.

]]> By: Valerie Mondesir http://valeriemondesir.com/youre-still-responsible-if-you-refuse-to-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-52 Valerie Mondesir Tue, 29 Sep 2009 15:13:46 +0000 http://valeriemondesir.com/?p=674#comment-52 Hi Oscar. Thanks for dropping by!<br>I'm glad you like it ... I was beginning to give up hope. ;-) Hi Oscar. Thanks for dropping by!
I'm glad you like it … I was beginning to give up hope. ;-)

]]> By: Valerie Mondesir http://valeriemondesir.com/youre-still-responsible-if-you-refuse-to-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-51 Valerie Mondesir Tue, 29 Sep 2009 15:12:55 +0000 http://valeriemondesir.com/?p=674#comment-51 Welcome, Misty! Thanks for your comment and encouragement.<br><br>I'd like to expand on your comment. Not having money is something that can be felt on so many different levels and I can empathize with the physical suffering/worrying that comes with it. But like you said, the lack of money is more of a mental barrier than anything else. If you don't have money and you continue to point your fingers at someone or something else, guess what? You're still going to be broke! At that point, whose problem does it become? You're still the one getting all the suffering, not the other people. <br><br>So yes, it is all about changing your attitude. No one ever said that was easy, but being broke isn't easy either. Welcome, Misty! Thanks for your comment and encouragement.

I'd like to expand on your comment. Not having money is something that can be felt on so many different levels and I can empathize with the physical suffering/worrying that comes with it. But like you said, the lack of money is more of a mental barrier than anything else. If you don't have money and you continue to point your fingers at someone or something else, guess what? You're still going to be broke! At that point, whose problem does it become? You're still the one getting all the suffering, not the other people.

So yes, it is all about changing your attitude. No one ever said that was easy, but being broke isn't easy either.

]]> By: Karlil http://valeriemondesir.com/youre-still-responsible-if-you-refuse-to-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-50 Karlil Mon, 28 Sep 2009 21:23:48 +0000 http://valeriemondesir.com/?p=674#comment-50 I hear you valerie. Excuses give us false impression that it's ok not to work on improving our life. And maybe, just maybe, we are right. Maybe it is ok not to do anything to improve ourselves, provided we are happy with where we're currently at. <br><br>But is it true though? Or was it yet another lie just so we can continue procrastinating with our life? That is the question I think we all have to ask ourselves. I hear you valerie. Excuses give us false impression that it's ok not to work on improving our life. And maybe, just maybe, we are right. Maybe it is ok not to do anything to improve ourselves, provided we are happy with where we're currently at.

But is it true though? Or was it yet another lie just so we can continue procrastinating with our life? That is the question I think we all have to ask ourselves.

]]> By: Oscar - freestyle mind http://valeriemondesir.com/youre-still-responsible-if-you-refuse-to-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-49 Oscar - freestyle mind Mon, 28 Sep 2009 19:54:39 +0000 http://valeriemondesir.com/?p=674#comment-49 Hey Valerie, really nice post, and congratulations for your new blog! I really like the design. Hey Valerie, really nice post, and congratulations for your new blog! I really like the design.

]]> By: mistymolina http://valeriemondesir.com/youre-still-responsible-if-you-refuse-to-take-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-48 mistymolina Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:32:58 +0000 http://valeriemondesir.com/?p=674#comment-48 Think what get's in most folks way is a distinct lack of money, this leads us to a general disatisfaction with our lot!<br><br>I mean, guess who said " money doesn't matter" right, the one whoa has plenty of it. On the other hand, when we have plenty of money we tend to live up to every penny, no thought for security or long term living. <br><br>If your worried from where is the next meal coming from or how to meet a relentless stream of bills then, yes, you will start to point the finger in some direction however, it is an attitude of mind and we have control or should have control over our own minds.<br><br>My own view is this: Provided I didn't hurt anyone then, stop worrying and try to change your life, go for it!<br><br>Misty X Think what get's in most folks way is a distinct lack of money, this leads us to a general disatisfaction with our lot!

I mean, guess who said ” money doesn't matter” right, the one whoa has plenty of it. On the other hand, when we have plenty of money we tend to live up to every penny, no thought for security or long term living.

If your worried from where is the next meal coming from or how to meet a relentless stream of bills then, yes, you will start to point the finger in some direction however, it is an attitude of mind and we have control or should have control over our own minds.

My own view is this: Provided I didn't hurt anyone then, stop worrying and try to change your life, go for it!

Misty X

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